Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte Ltd

Couple Counselling Singapore


Relationships can be incredibly beautiful yet challenging. Couples, regardless of their gender, stage of commitment, or type of relationship, may face obstacles that can strain their bond. At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte Ltd, we recognize the vulnerability that comes with love and provide the necessary tools and support to navigate these difficulties.

What is Couples Counselling?

Couples counselling offers a safe space for partners to resolve conflicts, improve communication, and deepen their connection with the guidance of a professional. It helps couples address issues and find practical solutions to enhance their relationship.

Benefits of Couples Counselling:

  • Improved Communication: Helps partners express their thoughts and feelings openly and carry on conversations without blame or the four horsemen of criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling.
  • Conflict Resolution: Addresses misunderstandings and disagreements.
  • Enhanced Intimacy: Reignites the emotional and physical connection between partners.
  • Trust Restoration: Works on rebuilding trust and reducing destructive habits.
  • Understanding and Healing the Past: We recognize that individuals are not the problem but may carry problems from childhood trauma, previous relationships, or attachment wounds. Our approach focuses on moving forward while repairing and healing the past that may be trapping the present.

Common Issues Addressed:

  • Communication Problems: Misunderstandings and lack of effective dialogue, focusing on how to carry a conversation without blame or the four horsemen of criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling.
  • Lack of Trust: Issues with transparency and trust within the relationship.
  • Decreased Intimacy: Emotional and physical disconnect over time.
  • Recurrent Conflicts: Persistent arguments and unresolved issues.
  • Recognition and Praise: Teaching partners to see, notice, and praise each other, and most importantly, how to repair and rebuild the relationship.

Our Approach:

  • We employ a range of therapeutic techniques tailored to each couple’s unique needs:
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Focuses on building a secure emotional bond between partners.
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy: Focuses on increasing closeness, managing conflict, and building a shared life.
  • Non-Violent Communication (NVC): Enhances compassionate and effective communication.
  • Satir Method: Aims to improve communication and understanding through family therapy techniques.
  • Family Systems Therapy: Examines family roles and their impact on the couple.
  • Work of Esther Perel: Focuses on enhancing intimacy and connection in relationships.

Why Choose Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy?

Experienced Therapist: Karl deSouza, our lead therapist, is extensively trained in various therapeutic modalities.

  • Personalized Approach: Customized counselling plans to meet each couple’s specific needs.
  • Inclusive and Supportive Environment: We treat all couples equally, regardless of gender or relationship stage, ensuring privacy and trust in every session. Our commitment to diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) ensures that every couple feels respected and valued.
  • Safety Assurance: We understand how vulnerable relationships can be and prioritize creating a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental environment. Our goal is to provide a secure space where couples can openly share their feelings, understand each other better, and work towards repairing and strengthening their bond.

How to Get Started:

If you and your partner are looking to improve your relationship and reignite your connection, contact us today to schedule an appointment. Let us help you build a stronger, more loving partnership.

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