Sexual Addiction Counselling Singapore
Take Control. Find Peace. Start Over.
Compulsive Sexual Behaviour | Hypersexuality | Porn Addiction | Sex Addiction Therapy
Sexual addiction, also known as compulsive sexual behaviour or hypersexuality, is a condition where sexual thoughts, urges, or behaviours begin to dominate your daily life — often at the cost of your relationships, self-esteem, health, or career. At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte Ltd, we provide confidential, non-judgmental sex addiction therapyin Singapore that supports you in reclaiming control, rebuilding your life, and restoring emotional health.
Sexual addiction is not about how often you have sex — it’s about feeling powerless over your sexual behaviours, even when they bring harm. Individuals may engage in risky sexual activities, compulsive pornography use, excessive masturbation, or frequent use of sexual services, despite serious consequences. If you’ve ever thought, “Why can’t I stop even when I want to?”, you’re not alone — and help is available.
Common Symptoms of Sexual Addiction
Obsession with sex or sexual fantasies
Daily or frequent masturbation, often tied to pornography
Excessive time spent seeking or planning sexual encounters
Use of sexual services (e.g., paid sex, strip clubs, webcams)
Engaging in risky, aggressive, or harmful sexual behaviours
Violating personal values, cultural norms, or religious beliefs
Inability to stop despite damage to relationships, health, or finances
Feelings of guilt, shame, isolation, or depression
Emotional Impact: What a Sex Addict Often Feels
😔 Guilt or remorse after acting on impulses
😩 Hopelessness and powerlessness to stop
😢 Loneliness and social disconnection
😨 Fear of being exposed or judged
😓 Anxiety, stress, or suicidal thoughts
The Hidden Costs of Sexual Addiction
Sexual addiction doesn’t just affect your private life — it can cause deep, wide-ranging damage:
💔 Relationship breakdowns, infidelity, or divorce
📉 Job loss or poor performance due to distraction or inappropriate behaviour
💸 Financial strain from paid sexual activities
🦠 Health risks including STIs and unplanned pregnancies
🧠 Mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, or trauma
⚖️ Legal consequences in extreme or unlawful cases
Our Therapeutic Approach: From Shame to Strength
Breaking the Silence, Dispelling Shame: Shame is one of the biggest barriers to seeking help. It keeps you stuck, isolated, and afraid to speak. Therapy offers a safe space to unpack your experiences and begin releasing shame’s grip on your life.
Guilt & Remorse: Turning Pain into Growth and acknowledging the hurt you’ve caused — to yourself or others — is never easy. But it’s also the first step to healing. We guide you through self-forgiveness, accountability, and repair.
From Hopelessness to Hope: It’s never too late to seek help. If you’ve tried to stop before and failed, we’ll explore why it’s happening and help you build new, healthy coping mechanisms.
From Isolation to Connection: Sexual addiction thrives in secrecy. Recovery begins in connection — with your therapist, with support systems, and most importantly, with your authentic self.
Resilience Beyond Relapse: Slip-ups may happen. What matters is how we respond. We help you build emotional resilience, develop awareness, and create a relapse prevention plan grounded in compassion and structure.
Meet Your Therapist: Karl deSouza
Sex Addiction Therapist | Singapore Registered Counsellor | Accredited Family Mediator
Karl brings over 20 years of experience in treating individuals facing complex relational and compulsive issues. His approach to sex addiction therapy blends:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
Trauma-Informed Counselling
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Somatic Techniques (for body-mind connection)
Psychosexual Education
Above all, Karl offers a space where you’re seen as a human being, not a problem to fix.
Why Choose Us?
Private and Discreet counselling
No judgement, Just Support
Rooted in empathy, science and experience
Tailored therapy for individuals and couples
Flexible online or in-person sessions
Take the First Step Toward Recovery
Sexual addiction is real — but so is healing. With the right help, it’s possible to regain control, repair trust, and build the life you deserve.
📞 Contact us today to schedule your first session with Karl.
🕊️ Your journey to freedom begins now.