Co Parenting Counselling Singapore
Navigating post-divorce parenting with clarity and cooperation.
Co Parenting after Divorce: Creating a Child Centred Future
Shared Parenting After Divorce: Creating a Stable Foundation for Your Family
When a marriage ends, the echoes of a shared life may fade, but the chapter of co-parenting begins. Divorce may separate partners, but it unites them in a lifelong commitment to raising their children together. Co-parenting isn’t just about dividing time or tasks—it’s about ensuring your child grows up feeling secure, understood, and surrounded by love.
At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd., we empower separated parents to build a respectful, child-focused partnership through tailored co-parenting strategies, conflict resolution tools, and emotional support. Our aim is to help your family remain strong and your children thrive—even after divorce.
What is Co-Parenting After Divorce?
Co-parenting is a collaborative approach where parents work together after divorce or separation to make child-centred decisions. It’s about moving beyond conflict to create a harmonious environment where the child’s well-being is the priority.
Effective co-parenting includes:
Child-Centred Decisions: Prioritising your child’s needs and development.
Respectful Communication: Open, clear, and solution-focused dialogue.
Stability Across Homes: Predictable routines that provide emotional safety.
In Singapore, the Mandatory Co-Parenting Programme (CPP) is required before filing for divorce when children under 21 are involved. Learn more at the Family Assist Portal by MSF.
Common Challenges of Co-Parenting
Even with the best intentions, co-parenting brings unique challenges:
Conflicts Over Parenting Decisions (e.g. education, healthcare)
Emotional Residue from the marriage affecting communication
Logistical Issues across households
Professional counselling and mediation—like those offered at Listening Ear or through Singapore’s Family Justice Courts—can help turn these challenges into opportunities for cooperation.
Strategies for Effective Co-Parenting
Custody, visitation schedules, holidays
Agreements on healthcare, education, routines
Conflict resolution protocols
Stay child-focused in discussions
Use neutral tones and avoid blame
Consider co-parenting apps to streamline communication
Align rules and routines to offer children predictability
Present a united front to reduce confusion or manipulation
Avoid using them as messengers
Reassure them of both parents’ love and support
Family counselling or mediation improves communication, emotional regulation, and parenting cooperation
Benefits of Co-Parenting for Children
Reduced anxiety, confusion, and emotional stress
Consistency in routines and values
Secure, loving relationships with both parents
Greater academic and emotional stability
How Listening Ear Counselling Can Help
We support you with:
Accredited Guidance: Karl deSouza is a registered SAC Counsellor and accredited family mediator with Singapore Mediation Centre (SMC) and MiKK (International Mediation Centre for Family Conflict and Child Abduction).
Tailored Co-Parenting Strategies: Addressing your unique family dynamics
Child-Centred Focus: Supporting your child’s emotional and developmental health
Co-parenting after divorce doesn’t have to be a source of stress. With the right support and strategies, you can build a collaborative partnership that benefits your children. Contact us today to Reclaim you Peace of Mind with Regards to the Kids Mental Health and Future, Focus on Healing and Showing up for yourself and them in a Reliable Manner. Book an appointment today
Our Co-parenting Counselling Fees
| Session Type | Investment | Additional Charges | Cancellation Policy |
|---|---|---|---|
| In-Person Sessions | SGD 250 | – SGD 50 after-hours surcharge -Transportation fees for out-of-office sessions or different venues | Reschedule or cancel with 36+ hours’ notice. Late changes or no-shows incur full session investment. |
| Virtual Sessions (Zoom) | SGD 200 (PayNow) SGD 250 (Other Methods) | – SGD 50 after-hours surcharge | Same as above. |
Why Choose Us for Co-Parenting Counselling?
At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy, we bring a combination of expertise, compassion, and practical guidance to every session. Here’s why families trust us:
Co-Parenting Counselling requires an experienced counsellor who can guide you without influencing your decisions. At Listening Ear, Karl deSouza brings over 20 years of professional experience and over 25 years of life experience as a father to create a judgement-free and empathetic environment. This ensures that:
Both parents feel heard and respected, even in high-conflict situations.
The counselling process remains neutral, focusing on collaboration rather than blame.
Sessions provide the tools to regulate emotions, address co-parenting challenges, and develop sustainable strategies for shared parenting.
Our goal is to help parents work together to create a stable environment for their children, ensuring their needs remain the central focus.
As an internationally recognised mediator trained by MiKK (International Mediation Centre for Family Conflict and Child Abduction), where he is listed and accredited as an expert mediator, Karl deSouza brings global best practices to resolving cross-border parenting conflicts. MiKK mediators specialise in helping parents remain partners while focusing on the best interests of their children. Learn more about MiKK’s approach to mediation here.
As an Accredited Family Mediator with the Singapore Mediation Centre (SMC), Karl deSouza combines his expertise in legal, emotional, and relational dynamics to:
Support parents in navigating the practical challenges of co-parenting, such as creating parenting plans and improving communication.
Provide insights that prepare families for collaboration with legal professionals when needed.
This holistic approach ensures that both emotional well-being and practical concerns are addressed simultaneously, creating a foundation for sustainable co-parenting.
Co-Parenting Counselling often intersects with deeply personal and emotional challenges. At Listening Ear, we draw on a range of evidence-based modalities to address:
Conflict Resolution: Strategies for reducing tension and improving communication.
Emotional Regulation: Tools to manage stress and build resilience.
Grief and Loss: Supporting parents and children through the transitions of divorce.
With training in approaches such as The Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), and trauma-focused methods like Somatic Experiencing, Karl ensures every session is tailored to meet your unique needs.
Singapore’s multicultural fabric shapes relationships in unique ways. Karl’s sensitivity to cultural values, family dynamics, and gender identities ensures that every client feels understood and respected. Coupled with his extensive life experience as a father and husband of over 25 years, he offers a nuanced perspective on the complex emotions and practical realities parents face when navigating co-parenting dynamics.
Your comfort is our priority. At Listening Ear, we provide:
A safe and confidential space for honest conversations.
Flexible session options: in-person or via Zoom, with an SGD 50 discount for remote consultations.
Whether you’re at a crossroads or ready to take actionable steps, our support is tailored to meet your emotional and practical needs.
Learn more about our philosophy and approach on our About Us page. Don’t wait. Book your session today and take the first step toward clarity. Contact us here.
Professionally Trained, Trauma-Informed & Culturally Attuned
Evidence-Based & Grounded in Real Life
Culturally Sensitive & Globally Informed
Respectful of Complex, Delicate Issues
Neutral, Non-Judgemental & Confidential Space
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ's)
At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd., co-parenting counselling sessions are tailored to provide a safe, neutral space where parents can collaborate on building a stable, child-centred foundation. Each session focuses on:
- Parenting Plans: Developing clear and comprehensive plans, including custody schedules, holiday arrangements, and guidelines for decision-making on education, healthcare, and extracurricular activities.
- Conflict Resolution: Equipping parents with strategies to address disagreements constructively and protect children from disputes.
- Communication Skills: Enhancing respectful dialogue to ensure decisions remain focused on the child’s well-being and family stability.
Karl deSouza, a registered counsellor, Accredited Family Mediator with the Singapore Mediation Centre, and internationally certified cross-border mediator with MiKK, brings extensive expertise and over 25 years of experience to guide you through this process.
Yes Absolutely, co-parenting counselling is particularly effective in managing high-conflict and cross-border challenges. At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd., we:
- Help parents resolve disputes related to education, healthcare, and custody arrangements across borders.
- Offer tools for effective communication, even in the face of significant differences or distance.
- Provide guidance for creating parenting plans that work across different jurisdictions.
As an internationally accredited mediator with MiKK (International Mediation Centre for Family Conflict and Child Abduction) and the Singapore Mediation Centre, Karl deSouza specialises in cross-border cases, ensuring parents navigate complex cultural and legal landscapes effectively. Learn more about his accreditations here.
While joint sessions are ideal for collaboration, Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd. also offers individual sessions for situations where:
- One parent needs support in managing the emotional or logistical aspects of co-parenting.
- The other parent is unwilling or unavailable to participate in joint sessions.
- Personal coaching is needed to navigate high-conflict or cross-border challenges independently.
This flexibility ensures progress is possible, regardless of the level of cooperation between parents. Explore how Karl’s expertise can support you here.
The Mandatory Co-Parenting Programme (CPP) is a government requirement for parents with children under 21 before filing for divorce. It focuses on:
- Legal guidance and procedural basics for co-parenting.
- Fulfilling the minimum obligations for parental collaboration.
In contrast, private co-parenting counselling at Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd. offers:
- In-depth support tailored to emotional, relational, and practical challenges.
- Cross-cultural and cross-border insights for international families.
- Personalised solutions to navigate unique family dynamics and long-term co-parenting success.
Karl’s global expertise ensures private sessions go beyond legal requirements to address the deeper needs of your family. Learn more about his qualifications here.
Yes, Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd. offers flexible online sessions via Zoom. Online counselling is particularly valuable for:
- Parents in different locations or time zones, especially in cross-border situations.
- Busy parents juggling work and family responsibilities.
- Expatriates and international families living in Singapore, where mixed-nationality and multicultural marriages are common.
Sessions provide the same high-quality support as in-person meetings, with an SGD 50 discount for virtual consultations. Discover how Karl deSouza can guide you through your co-parenting journey here.