Loss of a Child Counselling Singapore
Grieve with love. Heal with support.
Counselling for Parents Grieving the Loss of a Child
Because some pain is too deep to carry alone.
Nothing prepares a parent for the unimaginable pain of losing a child. It is a grief that cuts through the soul, often leaving parents feeling like their world has shattered. At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy, we understand that this kind of loss is not only about mourning a life—it’s about mourning a future, the dreams, the milestones that will never come. Our counselling services offer a space to grieve without judgment, to speak the unspeakable, and to begin understanding the complex emotions that follow such a devastating event.
Grief after the loss of a child is not linear. You may find yourself overwhelmed by waves of sorrow, intense guilt, rage, or isolation—sometimes all in one day. Many parents silently ask themselves “what if,” feel responsible even when they know logically they are not, or feel disconnected from the world around them. We help you process these thoughts gently, without rushing you to “move on.” Instead, we focus on how to live with the loss—how to honour your child’s memory in a way that allows space for pain while slowly rediscovering small pockets of peace. Our therapists also help you understand and manage grief triggers such as anniversaries, birthdays, or everyday reminders that resurface the pain without warning.
In our sessions, we provide emotional tools to express and validate your grief and help you reflect on the difficult “why” questions that often arise. We explore personal rituals, memory-building practices, and grounding techniques to help you stay present when the emotional toll becomes unbearable. If and when you’re ready, we can also explore finding purpose through grief—whether that means advocacy, legacy projects, or simply living with greater intention in your child’s name.
Supporting the Family Unit & Finding Meaning After Loss
The death of a child impacts the entire family, often in different and conflicting ways. Siblings may grieve silently or feel forgotten; couples may struggle to support each other through their individual grief; and extended family members may carry their own sorrow while feeling helpless. We offer dedicated support to every part of the family system, including family grief counselling sessions, one-on-one support for siblings, and couples therapy for grieving parents who may feel distant or emotionally misaligned after the loss.
Our approach is holistic and integrates a blend of therapeutic modalities to meet each family’s emotional needs. We may use Narrative Therapy to help you shape and share your story in a way that honours your child; Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to manage spiraling thoughts; and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to restore emotional connection between grieving partners. Somatic approaches help release grief that’s stored in the body, while mindfulness practices offer moment-to-moment grounding. For those seeking deeper existential support, we also draw from Logotherapy, guiding you to explore how meaning can emerge—even through profound pain.
We know the grief may never fully disappear, but you do not have to face it alone. Our role is not to “fix” your pain, but to hold space for it—to walk beside you with compassion and care as you find your way forward, at your own pace, in your own time.
Therapy Approaches used during Counselling Sessions at Listening Ear Counselling
This approach helps grieving parents process their loss by expressing and reshaping their personal story. We support you in honouring your child’s life, creating space for cherished memories, and making meaning of your grief journey in a way that validates your ongoing bond with your child.
CBT helps you identify and gently reframe overwhelming or self-critical thoughts—such as guilt, helplessness, or “what if” spirals. This method is especially helpful for managing anxiety, depression, and emotional exhaustion that often follow a profound loss.
Grief often manifests physically—as tension, fatigue, tightness, or numbness. Somatic approaches help you tune into your body, release stored emotional pain, and feel more grounded in the present moment through breathwork, gentle movement, or guided awareness.
EFT supports grieving couples in expressing vulnerability, navigating emotional disconnection, and rebuilding closeness. It helps each partner feel seen, heard, and supported—especially when both are grieving in different ways.
These practices anchor you in the present, offering gentle tools to manage emotional intensity. Through breathwork, sensory awareness, and grounding exercises, we help you access moments of peace—even amidst overwhelming grief.
Inspired by Viktor Frankl’s work, logotherapy focuses on the human need for meaning. While it doesn’t seek to justify the loss, it helps you explore ways to honour your child’s life and legacy—through purpose, advocacy, or meaningful action.
The loss of a child is a devastating, life-altering experience. But you don’t have to navigate it alone. At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd., we’re here to walk alongside you, offering empathy, understanding, and the support you need to find your way through this unimaginable pain. Contact us today to begin your journey towards healing and honouring your child’s memory.
Our Counselling Fees
Session Type | Investment | Additional Charges | Cancellation Policy |
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In-Person Sessions | SGD 250 | – SGD 50 after-hours surcharge -Transportation fees for out-of-office sessions or different venues | Reschedule or cancel with 36+ hours’ notice. Late changes or no-shows incur full session investment. |
Virtual Sessions (Zoom) | SGD 200 (PayNow) SGD 250 (Other Methods) | – SGD 50 after-hours surcharge | Same as above. |