Sibling Rivalry Counselling Singapore
Turning sibling competition into connection, understanding, and lifelong harmony.
Sibling Rivalry Counselling in Singapore: Strengthening Bonds, Reducing Conflict
Sibling rivalry is a natural part of growing up, but when left unchecked, it can create tension, resentment, and ongoing stress within the family. For some households in Singapore, rivalry between brothers and sisters goes beyond occasional disagreements, evolving into constant competition for attention, parental approval, or household resources. This can impact not only the siblings’ relationship with each other but also the overall harmony of the family.
Arguments, jealousy, comparison, and resentment are common signs — and without healthy conflict resolution skills, these behaviours can persist into adulthood. Addressing sibling rivalry early helps prevent long-term emotional distance, fosters understanding, and encourages siblings to see each other as allies instead of competitors.
At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte Ltd, we provide specialised family counselling in Singapore to help families address sibling rivalry constructively. Our goal is to equip siblings and parents with strategies to improve communication, strengthen bonds, and create a positive, cooperative family environment.
Understanding the Root Causes of Sibling Rivalry
Sibling rivalry can stem from:
Perceived Unequal Treatment – Believing one sibling receives more attention, praise, or privileges.
Competition for Resources – Fighting over parental time, toys, space, or other shared items.
Age and Developmental Differences – Gaps in maturity and life stage can create misunderstandings.
Personality Clashes – Differences in temperament, interests, or values.
Family Stressors – Parental conflict, financial pressure, or big life changes that heighten tension.
By understanding these root causes, we can address rivalry at its source rather than simply managing the symptoms.
How Our Sibling Rivalry Counselling Helps
We explore the specific patterns, triggers, and emotional needs driving the rivalry. Through guided discussions and observation, siblings begin to see each other’s perspectives, building empathy and awareness.
We teach siblings and parents effective communication techniques — including active listening, respectful expression, and conflict de-escalation strategies — so disagreements can be resolved peacefully.
We facilitate structured activities that encourage cooperation, teamwork, and shared enjoyment, helping siblings find common ground and build positive shared experiences.
Our Counselling Approach
Creating a Safe and Neutral Space
Sessions are held in a confidential, supportive environment where siblings feel comfortable expressing their thoughts without fear of judgment or punishment.
Mediation and Conflict Resolution
As a neutral third party, we help siblings work through disagreements constructively, guiding them toward mutually beneficial solutions and long-term harmony.
Involving Parents for Sustained Change
We equip parents with tools to manage rivalry at home, model positive behaviour, and ensure consistent boundaries and expectations.
Benefits of Addressing Sibling Rivalry Through Counselling
Reduced frequency and intensity of conflicts
Improved trust and cooperation between siblings
Stronger emotional bonds within the family
Better communication skills for future relationships
A more peaceful, respectful home environment
Why Choose Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy in Singapore
With years of experience in family therapy and a deep understanding of cultural and generational dynamics in Singaporean households, we provide practical, empathetic support tailored to each family’s needs. Whether your children are in early childhood, adolescence, or young adulthood, our strategies are designed to foster lifelong sibling connections.
Professionally Trained, Trauma-Informed & Culturally Attuned
Evidence-Based & Grounded in Real Life
Culturally Sensitive & Globally Informed
Respectful of Complex, Delicate Issues
Neutral, Non-Judgemental & Confidential Space
Our Family Counselling Fees
| Session Type | Investment | Additional Charges | Cancellation Policy |
|---|---|---|---|
| In-Person Sessions | SGD 250 | – SGD 50 after-hours surcharge -Transportation fees for out-of-office sessions or different venues | Reschedule or cancel with 36+ hours’ notice. Late changes or no-shows incur full session investment. |
| Virtual Sessions (Zoom) | SGD 200 (PayNow) SGD 250 (Other Methods) | – SGD 50 after-hours surcharge | Same as above. |