Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte Ltd

Family Healing & Intergenerational Impact in Singapore

Break the cycle. Restore trust. Reclaim your family story.

How Does Addiction Affect Families Across Generations?

Addiction’s impact extends far beyond one individual—its emotional reverberations often echo through families, reshaping neural wiring, attachment patterns, and relational dynamics across generations. Children growing up in homes where addiction, chaos, or neglect was present often carry unprocessed trauma into adulthood, impacting their sense of identity, self-worth, and ability to form healthy relationships.

At Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd., we offer a trauma-informed, systemic approach designed to:

  • Heal adult children of addicts (ACOA) from early attachment wounds

  • Support families dealing with emotional turmoil experienced by children

  • Navigate the delicate balance between safety and care in environments where abuse and addiction intersect

How Addiction Shapes Children and Familial Patterns

Emotional Turmoil in Childhood: Children living with addiction often experience shame, fear, confusion, and emotional instability. The unpredictable environment affects their developing brains and attachment systems, leading to symptoms like anxiety, anger, or emotional shutdowns in adolescence and adulthood.

Attachment Disruption and ACOA Patterns: Adult Children of Addicts often develop maladaptive patterns such as:

  • Hypervigilance or emotional numbness

  • Difficulty trusting others or setting boundaries

  • Strong fear of abandonment or perfectionism driven by low self-worth.

Without intervention, these relational wounds can become unconscious behaviours that perpetuate trauma across generations.

Intergenerational Transmission of Trauma: Trauma is passed not just through experience, but through relational patterns, emotional templates, and even epigenetic influences across generations. Addressing this family legacy requires intentional therapy and transformation, not passive hope.

Our Intergenerational Addiction & Trauma Counselling Services

Healing Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACOA)

Heal the lasting impact of growing up with addiction. Understand how early family dynamics shape adult relationships, emotional patterns, and how to break the cycle for future generations.

A Child’s Experience of Addiction

Explore how children experience fear, shame, and emotional instability when a parent struggles with addiction, and how safe, supportive therapy helps restore security and trust.

Addiction Counselling in Singapore

Addiction’s Impact on Family Roles

Address parentification, role reversal, and emotional neglect in families affected by addiction, and rebuild healthier boundaries, stability, and family dynamics.

What Happens When Addiction and Abuse Exist in the Same Family System?

When addiction co-occurs with coercive or abusive dynamics, safety becomes the foundational issue.

Signs to take seriously include:

  • Physical aggression or emotional manipulation

  • Control over finances, isolation from support networks

  • Threats, intimidation, or emotional distancing

Families often struggle with shock, loyalty conflict, or fear—especially when addiction impairs empathy or self-control. Establishing boundaries and a robust safety plan is essential before meaningful healing can begin.

Our Counselling Fees in Singapore

Session TypeInvestmentAdditional ChargesCancellation Policy
In-Person SessionsSGD 250

SGD 50 after-hours surcharge

-Transportation fees for out-of-office sessions or different venues

SGD 50 administrative fee may apply  where additional insurance coordination or documentation is required

Reschedule or cancel with 36+ hours’ notice.
Late changes or no-shows incur full session investment.
Virtual Sessions (Zoom)

SGD 250 (Advance PayNow Preferred Rate  of  SGD 200 may be offered on a case-by-case basis when payment is made using PayNow or direct Bank transfer at least 3 days in advance and no administrative work is required.) 

– Same as above (where applicable)

Same as above.

*For more information on session rates, cancellation policy, accepted payment methods, and other related details, please refer to our Fees and Payment Page*

What Clients say about our Counselling in Singapore

Professionally Trained, Trauma-Informed & Culturally Attuned

Evidence-Based & Grounded in Real Life

Culturally Sensitive & Globally Informed

Respectful of Complex, Delicate Issues

Neutral, Non-Judgemental & Confidential Space

How Can We Help Your Family Break the Cycle of Addiction and Trauma?

Addiction’s shadow does not have to define your family’s future. With intentional therapy, education, and mutual accountability, families can:

  • Break the cycle of emotional inheritance and inequality

  • Build relationships grounded in safety and mutual respect

  • Support adult children to step into identity free from past roles

Contact Listening Ear Counselling & Consultancy Pte. Ltd. today to learn how you can begin the journey toward healing—both individually and as a family.

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